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Post by astraldreamer on Thu Nov 15, 2018 8:13 am

hi everyone you may have noticed I've been very quiet these last few weeks. I haven't been feeling well.

I've been extremely exhausted and going to bed At like 7pm which definitely isn't like me. amongst other symptoms.

at first I thought I may have been pregnant. but 3 weeks on. nearly 4 weeks the tests are negative and I had my period.

for the first time in my life I'm praying and hoping my intuition is wrong.

whilst I was researching my symptoms the words just popped into my head.

ovarian.

now I've googled cysts and ovarian cancer and I have all the symptoms.
I also think back to a few days before my period came on the 29th October. I had a horrible pain on my right side which I just put down to maybe being due on.

everyone tells me not to he stupid but there's this feeling I cannot shake. I just keep getting the word ovarian. just that one word. so maybe it isn't anything too serious.

I have doctors booked but how can I express to them I wanna be checked right now. I don't wanna wait for weeks whilst they tell me I have ibs or tell me I have a stomach flu or something but at the same time I can't tell them my intuition told me lol.

anyway sorry for this negative post just wanted advice maybe and also to explain why I haven't been that active. but I will try to be from now on.
and please keep me in your prayers. thank u


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Post by Button on Thu Nov 15, 2018 3:00 pm

Il pray for you mayb you have been over doing things mayb you are stressed just take it easy sending you hugs
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Post by Cloud on Thu Nov 15, 2018 3:09 pm

Hey Astraldreamer hugs hugs :love:

I / we did notice , and were hoping you were ok

I just want to share a few things but don't take my word for it, i'm glad you're going to the doctor and everything.. and don't panic about what I say because chances are it's not what's happening to you but here goes..

I have .. I can name three people who were pregnant, still getting ''periods'' (that were really implantation bleeding) and had negative tests. One of them was pregnant with twins (family member) and didn't know until her waters broke... her kids are 12 now and healthy but yes it does happen and you can still bleed or have normal cycles especially in the first few weeks.....
I then have a friend who found out at 7 1/2 months,
and I have a cousin who had negative tests until she was 5 months, she only found out when she went into hospital with a stomach/pelvic tummy ache, they did an ultrasound and there was Jake.... she was almost half way through her pregnancy......then...
When I was pregnant with my daughter I was having morning sickness (like clockwork) every single day and tests were saying no no no, I tried clearblue, clear and simple, boots, Tesco's... nothing.. so I thought I was going mad.

Every single scenario went through my mind.. is it this, do I have a bug, is it that etc. waited and waited and saw the faintest 2nd line you could ever imagine but they never got darker, and when I say faint I mean you had to hold it up to a lamp to just about see it. I went to the doctor and the doctor (who specialized in women's health) told me that this happens to about 1 in 100 women, it's called the Hook effect.. now what happens (she explained) is that eventually the hcg levels can be so high that the hormone saturates the test, there's so much of it that the test doesn't register it at all (home tests that is) and sometimes the only way to get an accurate reading is to have Beta HCG bloods drawn, a qualitative or quantative....

She also told me that after three months of pregnancy the hcg hormone tapers off, they rise high and then they gradually drop again..
In short, it's always possible until bloods and ultrasound rule it out...

with the blood tests, one of them reads whether there's a presence of the hormone, and one of them reads the exact level. I forget now but labs around the uk are different in what is considered a positive result because things like menopause can cause higher levels of HCG and certain other medical conditions that are rare. But anyway, I think your doctor will probably do a HCG blood test, if they do, i'd ask them to do the one that checks the level of hormone in the blood, not the one that says yes pregnant or no not pregnant, because anything above 5 is a possible pregnancy and anything above 25-50 is a certain yes. Anyway..

back to implantation bleeding but many women think this is a period, because the bleeding can happen right around the time you were expecting it
If you have pain in your side definitely mention it
Also.. tests differ in sensitivity, did you use a First response?.. FRER tests detect the hcg at 6.5miu which is the most sensitive you can get on the market, failing that , superdrug tests are just as sensitive and worth trying. Stay away from blue dye tests because they are awful, they always leave evaporation lines and can give false positives and negatives..
they are so misleading and they are low sensitivity so basically they'll register positive about a week or longer than first response or superdrug tests do. So many women get false negatives on those

There's also a website where (if you really do need help til you see the doctor) you can talk to a midwife for free by emailing them, they are based in the UK and will give you advice.. I emailed them a few years ago and they told me that false negatives are very common. What happened with me, I had a positive and they turned negative, I was told false negatives are more common than false positivs.. so take that into consideration as well


See a female, male doctors are not always very understanding about this but you're still fertile and able to fall pregnant if having cycles so there's always going to be a chance regardless... just tell them you strongly feel you are, and that if you are not, you have every symptom of ovarian ?cancer? they can't ignore this, at all, and you'll probably be sent for an ultrasound regardless to check for ovarian cysts , ectopic pregnancy, they will have to rule everything out

They can't tell you this is IBS because even to me it's clear it's a reproductive thing to do with those organs not tummy, just keep a diary of everything, it's really stressful I know. I was also told that my hcg was so high because there was a chance it was twins. I almost fell off my chair, but dr explained very high levels and false negatives can be caused by twins as well. Again I doubt it's that but don't let these doctors dismiss what you are saying.. if you really are worried about cancer there's a two week pathway in the uk and they should have you seeing or at least referred to a specialist within two weeks, and might have to wait up to six weeks to see them.. same for any cancer query, 2 weeks is the NICE guideline and I've never waited longer than that, so I really hope it will be sorted within that time

So look up the hook effect

i'll grab you the website where you can talk to a MW (it's confidential and they can advise you) even if you haven't had a pos test yet......

and we're all keeping you in prayers, please let us knowhow you get on hugs

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Post by Cloud on Thu Nov 15, 2018 3:11 pm

No need to be sorry about being negative, we're all reaslistic here, sometimes life throws crap at us, but we all want everyone to feel able to talk about these things.. its what we're here for

Worrying about cancer or anything else like this really isolates us, I know. I been in the same boat many times and I kept thinking.. nobody wants to hear this.... so i'll keep it to myself.. but it only makes things worse

We're here for you

Click here for the site

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Post by Cloud on Thu Nov 15, 2018 3:20 pm

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Post by astraldreamer on Thu Nov 15, 2018 6:07 pm

thank you guys much, I was gonna post my list of symptoms here but didn't cus itsnota health site lol,

well I managed to get into the doctors today, anxiety was killing me


they said I have white blood cells in urine so bladder or kidney infection but I have had high white blood cells in my body for the past three years and they don't know why but he said it doesn't match up with all of my symptoms so think something else may be going on. so has sent urine away to be analysed. gave me antibiotics. in terms of other symptoms said it could be a rumbling appendix and to go a and e if pain gets worse. said if I don't feel better in a few days to go back and see him and he will do some blood tests .

he didn't do a pregnancy test but I did tell him ive taken lots of different tests which were all negatives and I asked him if I was pregnant surely it would show up by now and he said yes,

im gonna take a look at tht site now, thanks cloud x

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Post by Cloud on Fri Nov 16, 2018 6:01 am

Definitely go back in a few days and get those bloods done hugs

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Post by astraldreamer on Fri Nov 16, 2018 1:25 pm

thank you dragon and cloud and I will do x

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Post by Cloud on Sat Nov 17, 2018 12:37 pm

How are you feeling today astral? hugs

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Post by astraldreamer on Sat Nov 17, 2018 1:18 pm

hi cloud, still naseaus, nagging pain in my right lower side towards my back and very tired, was only given three days antibiotics so ill have to try get sme more Monday and get some bloods done, maybe I need to ask for a scan to see if this could be a ectopic pregnancy as well as I read tht u don't always get a positive pregnancy test with that.

thank u for asking, I hope you are well x

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