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Post by astraldreamer on Sat Aug 18, 2018 2:22 pm

Theres this guy, ill call him a, who I had a huge crush on about 12 years ago. He worked in my local shop, he was a bit younger than me but I wrote him a note and sent my young daughter in to the shop to give to him.

he never responded to the note, but I still always liked him, loved the way he used to smile at me.

anyway life moved on, I got with other people and he did too, we never became friends, just a smile and a hi if we ever bumped into each other.

last year I bumped into him at a nightclub and we had a chat, I still fancied him, he told me he was married etc but we added each other on facebook but never chatted on there lol.

for the last few months my daughter has been going on about getting a lizard and on facebook one day I noticed that al had set up a new profile, he ran a reptile rescue charity etc so I messaged him for advice about a lizard and we arranged to meet.

what surprised me was his reply was should I come to yours or should we go out for dinner, so this made me feel like maybe he liked me, but I wasn't sure so I arranged to meet him at mines.

on the day he came I was nervous as hell but it was all very professional and he didn't stay long.

we had a few messages with each other through out the next week about lizards and then he asked if he could come and spend time with me.

now im very guarded with my heart due to being hurt lots of time so I made sure that I kind of didn't do my usual which is to become attached and needy lol

my plan failed big time, he stayed for hours, we chatted, we laughed, we discussed hard times we have both been through, we cuddled, held hands, kissed, it truly was a beautiful evening.

I was hooked.

then he ignored me completely for 3 whole days, for a empathy this is torture, I cried, missed him, beat myself up for getting so attached so soon, on the 4th night I was so upset I began to talk to my angels, almost screaming at them, asking why bring him into my life again for nothing, and ten mins later he messaged.

told me he would like to spend some time alone with me, just the two of us, we enetered a long night of messaging, and he trusted me

I told him that he could trust me, he thanked me, and at the end of the night he said 5 words to me that warmed my heart and filled me with love and positivity.

he said

you are really something special.

this prompted me to do this post, cus words are words, so many words are said without a thought, but with thought words can have big amounts of power, not just in bad ways but in uplifting positive ways.

thoughtful words can lift somebodys mood
make them smile or laugh
help their self esteem and even save somebody's life.

so always try to think before you speak, some simple words you say could really make somebodys day in a million ways.


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Post by astraldreamer on Sat Aug 18, 2018 2:27 pm

just noticed I posted at 2.22 lol, these angel numbers love me lol

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Post by astraldreamer on Sat Aug 18, 2018 4:46 pm

thank you rubdn7, yes what you say is true and im glad it has given you some hope Smile

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Post by Cloud on Sat Aug 18, 2018 5:30 pm

ideas :goodpost: :goodpost:

Great post Astral

You worded that so well, words have so much power, they can lift or they can break, they can heal, encourage and help someone turn life around

You always notice that the words that are life changing, they can usually be put into one sentence, they are just powerful and rounded up

I'm really happy how well things are going between you and Al joyful congrats. I do understand how you mean as an empath when people go silent or disappear it makes you panic sometimes and then we sometimes over-assess the situation wondering what we've done wrong. But in the end everyone's colours show and it sounds to me like he really thinks the world of you... all the best Smile

I like seeing this, makes me happy. Life is short and like I say , i'm not looking for that at the moment but love in any form is beautiful, be it with family, friends or partners, It's the purest energy, without love and care there's no life, no healing, no happiness.. Everyone deserves it, everyone deserves love and happiness, especially people who work tirelessly to help others, those who have been healing for a long time from past traumas, those who are selfless and make it priority to put others before themselves I love you
Thank you for this post

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Post by astraldreamer on Sat Aug 18, 2018 5:40 pm

thank you cloud hugs x

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Post by astraldreamer on Sat Aug 18, 2018 5:49 pm

aww what a beautiful video, something so powerful about something so simple as a smile Smile

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Post by Cloud on Mon Sep 24, 2018 1:27 am

Just re-reading this, I really like it, we all need to be reminded that sometimes it only takes a few works they can build or break

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Post by astraldreamer on Mon Sep 24, 2018 6:57 pm

thank you cloud, sadly im not sure what is happening with me and al. he seemed to really really like me, could see it in his eyes.
we had a second date finally last week and was honestly like we had been a couple the whole of our lives.
everything was perfect/
we cuddled,  kissed, held hands, chatted, the conversation flowed effortlessly and we laughed and laughed.
lots of deep eye contact as well
when I had to leave he didn't want me to go and I didn't want to go either.

then he asked me Friday just gone if I could come down but I was on a night out so couldn't,
seems to have gone back to ignoring me, no messages.
I did ask him why during the week and he always says tht he is always busy and no I haven't done anything wrong.

he does always reply within a few hours if I messge him first.
im feeling maybe he needs space to gather how he is feeling.

trying my hardest not to be the first to message him this time but im scared a message from him will never ever come.

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Post by Cloud on Tue Sep 25, 2018 9:48 am

Aww

it gets so complicated and it's hard to know what the other is thinking isn't it?
I am like you in the sense that I need everything to be clear. If someone does want to be with me, or not. If someone is interested as I am or not, if we are on the same page or not .. etc. I'm not actively looking for a partner but even still it's the same for friendships. They have to be 50-50 and I need to know now that someone is interested or not because as life goes on we just get to a point I suppose where we only want people in our lives who want to be there. Sometimes all we can do is leave the door open for them and I suppose wait and see. The thing is with men (no offense to any who might read this, just my opinion) but sometimes I guess they are not very open with how they are feeling especially if they are worried with something happening in their personal life. I'm not sure if this is it but I also notice those of us who have been hurt in the past do learn to become analytical - in the sense that we can read everything!! .. body language, it's in the eyes too. We are sensitive so highly to how people talk to us/how they are around us and as an Empath you just somehow know when something is off. It doesn't sound like it's personal with you, that I agree with. He seems to be interested as he met with you again and it went how it did which is positive in the sense that he hasn't changed his mind.
But it is frustrating, I think deep down nobody likes it when someone goes silent on them. For so long. And even with friendships I get frustrated when it's me who initiates all the conversation, so I know how you feel with this. For someone who's been through what you have I don't blame you for wanting him to check in more through the week and be a bit clearer on what he wants in long term. Its just reassuring, definitely, to know how they are thinking and what they are wanting. I'm glad you brought it up with him I hope now he will be sure to contact a bit more .. I guess as well there's always the possibility this is just how he is and maybe he didn't / doesn't realize what it's doing to you/has done making you anxious etc. I think a lot of us would feel that way too though, so it's ok. Its reasonable, fair enough! too many have come and gone, if we love someone it's good to know right away where it's going to go so we can mentally prepare ourselves. I hope you two meet again soon and he does stay true to you. Fingers crossed because I believe everyone deserves to be loved, be happy. I believe in it and I believe this could be it for you two as well.

also.... It just struck me. He  can't let you go .. if he had been able to, he would have .. but so much time has passed.. he's still clearly interested in you, wanting to spend time and still from the sounds of it is attracted to you. I always think if someone is contacting you years later they haven't forgotten or gotten over you.They haven't moved on.
I just wonder what It could be holding him back. All I can say is don't take it personally, most of the time it's something going on within their lives.. but males, you need to talk to us females and make it clear what's going on laughs

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